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I Walked Into a Mercedes and BMW Dealer, Waited 45 Minutes and No One Helped Me, I Own an AMG C63 and a 540i, So, Luxury Dealers, Count Your Days

Do Mercedes and BMW dealers give good customer service? Buying an expensive luxury car should be a good experience. The opposite was true for Philippe, who walked through both dealers and received no help. Check out his unbelievable story.  
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Author: Denis Flierl
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Imagine walking into a Mercedes-Benz dealer, spending 45 minutes walking through the showroom, expecting someone to talk to you, and no one helps you. 

That's what happened to Philippe (@broskisavageg30), who went to a TikTok clip to share his story. You'd think that Mercedes-Benz and BMW dealers would give excellent customer service to a potential buyer, but the opposite was true for Philippe, a Haitian man. 

He says, "I own a BMW 540i and a Mercedes-Benz AMG C63. I walked past four salespeople, and they saw me and didn't want to talk to me. Not even a hello." 

In his TikTok clip, Philippe records himself walking into the Mercedes-Benz dealer in Delray Beach, Florida, to show his followers the cars he is checking out. However, he is astounded and says, "I've been walking around this dealership for about 45 minutes and no one helped me," he says with disbelief.

"I was the only customer in the entire showroom. What should I do next?" He says, "I prefer BMW anyway," as he gets into his BMW and leaves. 

Philippe has an idea. 

Philippe owns a BMW 540i, costing $60,000 for a 2025 model. So, in a follow-up TikTok clip, he wants to find out what will happen if he goes to the BMW dealer in Delray Beach, Florida. Will he get better customer service there? Or will they ignore him like they did at the Mercedes-Benz dealer?

Next, he says, "I'm going to the BMW dealership to see if anyone approaches me."

Philippe parks his black BMW 540i away from the sight of the showroom floor, so they can't see that he already owns a BMW. So, now he opens the door and walks into the BMW showroom full of new cars. 

There are no other customers in the dealer's showroom, so Philippe expects someone to approach him and ask if he needs help. 

He walks past someone sitting at a desk, and she glances at him and keeps working at the computer. He walks directly in front of another person sitting at the front desk, and she sees him and doesn't say a word.

He walked near the parts department and the customer waiting area, and then back up front, the two people were working. He holds up two fingers, showing that he's walked past two people now, and no one has acknowledged him. 

"I'll keep going," he says.

Now, he walks directly to the front area where the salespeople sit. He sees three sales associates who can see him. They do not say anything to him. 

As he keeps moving through the showroom, he walks into what appears to be the finance area and the manager's office. Again, no one says anything to him.

Philippe takes another route into the sales area, where he walks past another salesperson, who looks up from his computer, looks directly at him, and keeps working. 

Philippe walks out of the BMW dealership in shock. 

His disbelief turned into disappointment. He had hoped for a better experience at the BMW dealership, but it was just a repeat of his Mercedes-Benz visit.

"I walked past four salesmen," he says, holding four fingers up. "They are just sitting on their (expletive). They see me and ignore me. That's ok. I didn't want to take it to them," he says sarcastically.  

Philippe, in a state of disbelief with his experience at the two dealerships, Mercedes-Benz and BMW, where he was utterly ignored, leaving him in utter shock.

Would This Happen To Anyone Else?

At most car dealerships, salespeople are eager to help customers who enter the showroom. The new car dealer does not pay the salespeople a salary; they are paid on commission. You don't make money unless you sell a car.

In a typical car dealer, the more cars you sell, the higher the commission rate. So, the best salespeople are go-getters and jump at the chance when they see a potential buyer walk through the front door.

In most new car dealerships, you are accosted before reaching the front door. There are often multiple salespeople looking for a new customer and watching so they can be the first to approach them in the lot. 

What kind of customer service would you expect at a Mercedes-Benz or BMW Dealer?

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When walking into a Mercedes-Benz or BMW dealership showroom, you would expect a professional and well-organized environment. Sales staff should be courteous, knowledgeable, and eager to help. 

However, based on Philippe's appearance, he was ignored. 

He couldn't help but wonder if his race played a role in the poor service he received at both dealerships.

It's More Common Than You Think

According to a report from Justine Petersen, a Mercedes-Benz dealership fueled an atmosphere of unfairness and discrimination towards people of color.

Dorothy Robinson and Denise Ligon worked at a St. Louis Mercedes-Benz dealership for over three years.

What they witnessed and experienced led them to sue the dealership's owner, Tristar Imports, for discrimination, harassment, and retaliation. Their lawsuit, which detailed numerous instances of discrimination, brought to light the systemic issues at the dealership.

"When I had an African American client, it was more difficult to get the deal approved," Robinson told Christine Byers and Greg Miller of KSDK, an NBC affiliate television station based in St. Louis, Missouri.

"I witnessed that they treated Black customers differently," Ligon said.

There were allegations that Black customers were racially profiled. A manager would go online, see a Black prospective car buyer's address, and say, "Oh, he can't afford that car,' based on where he lived and the fact that he was Black."

"And these are people who are buying Mercedes-Benz cars. So, assuming that people who had come to a dealership to buy a Mercedes-Benz automobile were not people of means is a classic stereotype."

"It's so much bigger than what people know," Robinson added.

Tri-Star Imports, the owner of Mercedes-Benz of Saint Louis, was ordered to pay $1.8 million to the two former women employees who alleged the dealership discriminated against Black customers, regardless of credit worthiness or their wealth status.

According to Miller, Black people in the U.S. spend more than $50 billion on new cars every year. He said African Americans spend more money on cars than houses, yet face discriminatory practices in buying vehicles.

A McKinsey Institute for Economic Mobility report says Black consumers' automotive spending is projected to grow, and companies have opportunities to create more equitable experiences.

"For many Black Americans, cars are still a form of self-expression, especially when customization is part of the conversation. In the aftermath of the COVID-19 pandemic, our research shows that many Black Americans will spend more on private vehicles, with many looking to purchase electric cars," the report says. 

McKinsey analysis suggests that Black consumer spending on automotive products will reach $190 billion by 2030.

Conclusion

Customers like Philippe have discretionary income and have the money to purchase a Mercedes-Benz and a BMW automobile. Luxury car dealers have an opportunity to earn the attention and loyalty of Black consumers. 

The report says, "Thirty-five percent of Black survey respondents said they are not loyal to a particular auto brand, and our analysis suggests that up to $14 billion (15 percent) of Black consumer spending in the automotive sector will be up for grabs."

"I would expect being ignored in a Ferrari or Lamborghini dealer, but BMW and Mercedes, this is crazy. "BMW dealer, count your (expletive) days," he says as he gets into his car and drives away.

It's Your Turn

If you were ignored at a car dealership, how would you react? Click the red Add New Comment link below and tell us about your experience.

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I am Denis Flierl, a Senior Torque News Reporter since 2012. My 30+ year tenure in the automotive industry, initially in a consulting role with every major car brand and later as a freelance journalist test-driving new vehicles, has equipped me with a wealth of knowledge. I specialize in reporting the latest automotive news and providing expert analysis on Subaru, which you'll find here, ensuring that you, as a reader, are always well-informed and up-to-date. Follow me on my X SubaruReportAll Subaru, WRXSTI, @DenisFlierlFacebook, and Instagram.

Photo credit: Denis Flierl via Philippe @broskisavageg30 

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Comments

Andrew M. Smith (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 4:33PM

You ask to speak with the sales manager. Tell him/her what happened. Then ask if they want to do a deal at $100 over dealer cost or bring in regional customer service which, since he runs the entire sales dept and its staff, may cost him his job.

Paul Valentine (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 4:50PM

I own one of the least expensive cars that was made in recent history and the lady that sold it to me still greets me by name when I take it in for service.


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Alan (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 5:13PM

I'm grateful they don't harass me. they just let me walk around and look and then when I need something I'll go find someone. so I guess for some people they want somebody to come up there and acknowledge that they exist. as for me, I appreciate the solitude. just let me look around for a little while. when I want you I'll ask for you

Antoine H. (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 5:14PM

Yes, I experienced the same thing. I went to BMW and they tried to sell me a demo car for the same price as a new car .. My wife really liked the car so she went back and they increased the cost of her Car payment so went to the Mercedes Dealership .. the sales people were much better but the car was not ready, washed, nor charged. We had to come back 4 times because they messed up on my wife's registration and always gave us the run around. No one could go over thebfeatures with my wife because the person who provided the demo was only there during times my wife could not make it. The car had a malfunction and they wanted her to bring the car in days later but we insisted on someone looking at immediately. I will not buy another Mercedes nor BMW

Joe (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 5:23PM

This is nothing new. Back when the raptors were hard to come by and had ADM's at most dealers. We went shopping for one instock as I needed to buy it before end of year for tax purposes (this was end of November). A dealer that I had actually purchased multiple vehicles from previously was one of the stops.

Walked in talked to a person at the customer service desk and let them know I was interested in buying a Raptor. They pointed me to where they were on the lot and that a salesperson would be out to meet us shortly. Waited a good 20 plus minutes with my Dad and never had a salesperson show up.

Drove over to another Ford dealer 40 minutes away and after putting a deposit down with the amex and doing the paper work drove it home that night it was a Friday, and brought them the check on Tuesday from my bank for the rest. It was a blessing that the salesperson never came over cause I ended up with the color I really wanted that the other dealer did not have and got them to take 2k under msrp as I really did not want the sticker package it had.

Reality is if it was not for the antiquated contracts they have with the manufacturers most dealerships would not exist these days as anything but a parts and service location.

MDB (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 5:34PM

I'm a white guy who, many years ago now, was looking to purchase a new jeep liberty. Okay, not a high-end vehicle and I admit that I dress down when purchasing new vehicles, but here's my story.
This was in the Dallas - Fort Worth area. One dealership, the white salesman asked, as we (my wife and I) were walking around, if I was a farmer. I chuckled and said no. But then he kept asking if I was a farmer, as if it mattered! After receiving several no's from me, he would ask if I was sure? It finally got to the point of being insulting so we left.
At another dealership, there was a salesman, black this time, who had no customers, would look up, see that I wanted help, but ignored me. I even went up to him asking for help. He would say he would be with me in a few minutes, but still had no customers and still wouldn't help even after waiting 15 minutes, so once again we left
The next day, I stopped by the same dealership saw that the same salesman was there, and I asked to speak with the manager. After a couple of minutes, the manager introduced himself. I said I wanted to thank him for his salesperson whom I pointed toward and how his lack of service kept me looking for a new Liberty until I found a dealership outside of town that had a nice new Liberty that I could pay cash for and if he hadn't ignored me the night before that I might not have been able to pay cash. I was also pointing at my new car sitting outside which I was now driving. The manager was all smiles until he realized what I was saying and how his dealership had lost a sale ... and I'm guessing, that he might have lost a salesman soon after I left.

Wanda Strange (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 6:16PM

Car salesperson for 30 years. Alabama, Georgia and Florida. Sales people I know were too professional and hungry to let this happen. In addition, management would not have tolerated this. First lesson in sales, never judge. I would not have given anyone 45 minutes to insult me. Go where your money is appreciated.

BeachNJeep (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 6:25PM

When I was a kid, my dad went to a MBZ dealer is LA. He was wearing jeans, a tee shirt and flip flops. No one helped him. I watched as he looked around and noticed sales people were judging him based on his clothes. Finally, an Asian guy came up to my dad and asked if he had been helped. My dad was furious but calm. He picked out two of the most expensive cars in the showroom and told the salesperson he wanted to buy them, cash.

Obviously, this was not usual and the sales manager came out to greet my dad and thank him. My dad told the manager in a loud voice, "Teach you sales people to not judge how a person looks as to whether he can afford a car or not. I came to buy one car but bought two to prove a point and I paid with cash..."

I remember that while waiting for the cars to be cleaned and made ready, he told my mom he just bought 2 Mercedes. She flipped out and asked why. My dad just told her, because I wanted to make a point and because I can...

My bother just got a 2025 EQS 4matic for $117k. His experience was somewhat better, but it seems MBZ dealers don't have time for anyone these days. And that's a pity. We used to love their cars and the sales experience...

Deb G. (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 6:32PM

I'm not a customer but, better still, I have worked in the automotive industry for 45 years, with about half of that in dealerships.
Part of the reason this gentleman was ignored probably IS his race, or it could have been 100 other things. It doesn't matter. The dealer principal (owner) and upper management need to be made aware of it. That is absolutely unforgivable, and that's whether you are buying a $60k car or a $6 Happy Meal. Where I come from, if that happened, there would be a lot of job vacancies very soon.

TK (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 6:42PM

I have walked through a Ford dealership many times. I was actively looking for a sportier vehicle. I must have looked like a tire kicker or something, as no one ever came out of the dealership to ask me if I was interested in one of the vehicles. Finally, I went in and asked one of the sales team what the vehicle was retailing for - I chewed them out for not getting off their rears and even come out to tell me they would help with any questions. I told them I walk for my health, so don’t make assumptions.

Michael Schwartzbeck (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 7:02PM

Same thing happened to my parents years ago. They are t-shirt and shorts kinda people, but made good money. Mom always wanted a BMW and dad was going to buy her one for an anniversary gift. Walked around dealer and got totally ignored. Left and went and bought a Mercedes down the street

John (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 7:02PM

Don’t feel bad! I’m a white male and the exact same thing happened to me. Years ago, I wanted to buy my wife a little 2 seater Mercedes sports car. I walked around for nearly an hour and NOBODY would even acknowledge me. Here’s what I did: I found the manager, told him what had transpired & of course the they wanted to help then!
NOPE! As far as I’m concerned they had their chance! I politely told the manager that I would now be driving right across the street to the Porsche dealership to buy my wife a car there. Of course he just kind of smirked with a “sure you will” remark!
3 hrs later I drove my wife’s beautiful new Boxster S back across the street and made sure not only the manager, but everyone at that Mercedes dealer saw the car and rudely got informed how the whole thing transpired!😊

Dave (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 7:04PM

I had the opposite situation happen. Got jacked around and had my time wasted at both a Nissan and a Honda dealer looking at one of their top end SUVs. The Nissan dealer did not want to negotiate. Had the manager come out to my car as I was leaving. Too late. Honda went through the entire process and the didn't have the car I wanted on their lot. Went to a BMW and a Mercdes dealer and bought my wife and I SUVs in under an hour for about the same price as the other dealers.

JiiJii (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 7:19PM

Heh.... it's not just car dealers, it's retail in general in America. But, to keep it in context of the article, the same thing happened to me at a local Ducati/BMW/Triumph dealership. It was my first visit, my work vehicle (medical transport) was being serviced down the road so I wandered in wearing my work uniform, still a POC. Not a scintilla of acknowledgement. The next weekend I go back, wearing full riding gear on my late model Suzuki GT bike, the experience was marginally better, granted it was a busy Saturday. It's my opinion that luxe brands are inherently elitist, and EVERYONE is profiled as they walk in the door as dealers of these brands are snobs.

T. F. Jones (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 7:44PM

I went to a Kia dealership to look at a new car I saw on TV that caught my interest. They had one within 20 feet in front of their main entrance and I was thinking of test driving one. The car was the top of their line and I have owned many Cadillacs. I saw several sales people inside who clearly were not occupied. I walked around the vehicle for a while then looked at vehicles in their lot and came back to the original car. A white couple came on the lot and a white salesman immediately came out and took a beeline straight to the white couple. When he finished with that couple he glanced at me and offered to assist me while reentering the dealership. I own a Cadillac xt6 now.

TonyPGH (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 7:49PM

The subject of dealership sales tactics are a double edge sword. There are complaints when salespeople are too aggressive and complaints when they are nonchalant. The lower end car dealership salespeople are more aggressive because they have to sell more $24k cars each month than a luxury dealership sales person selling $80k cars each month. So, to allege that MB and BMW sales tactics are racially motivated across the board probably is not the case. To be clear, I'm not saying it isn't or not a contributing factor. But please take the following into consideration...

It's my understanding that Audi started the hands-off showroom approach years ago which MB and BMW have now copied. The luxury brands want to cater to customers of extreme wealth, it's the basis of their marketing and advertising. Yet they serve more middle class customers because that is what their marketing and advertising attracts. Most extremely wealthy customers will have staff or assistants make appointments for private showings of limited edition or rare and extremely expensive models. While the middle come in to purchase the lower base or entry models. These people usually don't have staff or assistants organizing their lives and forgo making an appointment. It has less to do with race, income, attire, etc. and more to do with thinking and acting like those that are more fortunate than most of us.

So next time you are interested in purchasing a luxury branded item, whether a MB, a Birkin bag, high end art, a fine bottle of wine, etc. It may serve you well to remember that you may be walking into unfamiliar territory and that you should act in accordance with what is appropriate to receive the level of service you expect.

Disclaimer: This is just my opinion on a very slippery slope. It is not my intention to discredit, offend or ignore any particular group or to excuse the behavior the OP has experienced. Everyone is entitled to their feelings and I was not witness to the dealership visit.

Denise (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 7:58PM

It Depends on what city and state your in.
For some reason some not all salespeople feel black people can't afford these types of cars..my family and i have 3 Mercedes and 1 BMW.. when buying my G-Wagon they tired to up charge me when I was already approved.. FL. So we walked out went to NC. And got top service.
It's sad but race will always be in the picture. Some may not agree but it's the world we live in... they were wrong for ignoring him. Any dealership you go in should be more than eager to help sell you a car ..
Thx you sharing 😘

Michael (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 8:14PM

It sounds like the sales people need a realty check. You never know how deep some people's pockets are regardless of how they look. It would be a bit like a millionaire rock star covered in tattoos getting ignored because of how they look. This happened to the drummer of blink 182, Travis Barker, a loyal Cadillac fan. The man in the show room who did approach him and give him the time of day ended up selling multiple cars to him over the years as he came back for more. I'm a white male in my early 40s and I got too much attention when I went to my local BMW dealership to check out the new cars. I'm a car enthusiast and mechanic who recently bought a secondhand X1. I really like BMWs and wanted to see the latest cars. I actually just wanted to be left alone while I walked around the showroom checking out all the new features and tech but we're approached by multiple sales people during my little excursion. It did feel nice however I quickly told them I was just looking.

Riley (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 8:55PM

Same experience when trying to buy a new super duty. At the time I was making nearly $200k/year in a blue collar job. Had casual clothes on when I walked in and nobody would acknowledge me. Finally I walked up to a sales associate and he said in a rude tone that I wouldn't be able to afford one and he didn't like his time being wasted. I pulled up my paystub and he basically got on his knees apologizing. I turned around and walked out after giving him a big FU.

Chris (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 9:03PM

I had a similar experience at a local Mercedes dealership. The receptionist introduced me to a sales agent. He sat me down and listened to what I was looking for, then he asked to excuse himself for a moment and disappeared for 20 minutes. After searching for him I found him outside helping another customer. I walked out after finding out the name of the General Manager. I went oblong and got the GM’s email address and sent a note with details of my visit. While the GM went out of his way to try to win my back, my business was gone. Why would I go back somewhere that treats customers that way…went out that weekend and bought a BMW. May never go back to Mercedes.

Bruce Bowden (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 9:08PM

We must remember back in the 50's and 60' Black people of color were not allowed to buy a Cadillac but ended up saving the brand when allowed to purchase them , True story told by my dad and uncles , most times the only job blacks got at Automobile dealerships was being the janitor or cleaning the vehicles ( DAMN SHAME )

Mark Groenig (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 9:24PM

I went into the Mercedes dealer in Salt Lake City couple of years ago looking to purchase. I own three Mercedes. I live in Park City. I look like a long haired pot smoking biker, because I am. I interacted with two sales people that really wanted nothing to do with me. Went to Vegas and bought a new 560.

Ann (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 9:56PM

Just order your vehicles online like we do. Don't hv to deal with a bunch of self righteous car sales people who think they're better than you. Yet, they are in a dealership selling vehicles on commission. lol

C Antoine (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 10:11PM

Very common. I walked into BMW of Bloomfield recently and many people made eye contact but no one offered to help.

Brian (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 10:15PM

Wife and I were deciding between an X7 and a GLS580. bmw salesman was very much on top of getting her information as the vehicle was for her. We test drove both vehicles and asked for some additional information on the GLS (what else they had coming in). Gave salesman both email and phone number never heard a peep back. I ended up buying a used one with 2000 miles on it over 2000 miles away and had it shipped.
Maybe it was because I drove my 2004 Toyota Tundra to the dealership instead of the 2018 BMW 750i that they didn't think we were serious. We are both 50 and Caucasian.

Aimee (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 10:22PM

Porsche does this to white women too. They want you to trade in a car for way less than value and give the slimy salesmen way over the value for whatever car you want to buy. They eventually told me that to get the car I want I have to buy a couple of cars I don’t want, never take off the lot and sell back to them at a huge loss. Total crooks. Wanted to charge me for turning off the illegal in America headlights for 1800 dollars too. The companies need to get rid of this criminal activity

John sklee (not verified)    May 12, 2025 - 11:24PM

Luxury car sales people??? Same problem here too
China cars had already given better luxury features at a price common people can afford. These high class sales people will be extinct here.
BMW owners and luxury car owners are cancelling their bookings to take china cars here in Malaysia.